Ultra-Processed Foods Are Killing Your Sex Drive and Making Your Dick Soft
Junk food is damaging your junk.
Influential “TradWives” are Reshaping the Dating Landscape
Conservative dating is on the rise. We explore why more women are falling in love with traditional values.
Lily Allen’s West End Girl: A Breakup Album for a Parasocial Age
Lily is letting us in. Can we get through the mess?
When Allies Turn Judge: Why Democratic Journalists Calling Out Gay Republicans Can Undermine Gay Rights
Don Lemon’s war against gay republicans gets cunty.
Zohran Mamdani’s Promise, the Paradox of Faith, and the Path to Real Safety for Sex Workers
We breakdown Mamadani’s lack of direction in legalization and how he can get it right.
Sex Swings: A Kink-Curious Guide to Elevated Pleasure
For anyone who’s curious about kink but not ready to jump headfirst into ropes, cuffs, or dungeon furniture, a sex swing is an intriguing middle ground and the first step toward exploring elements of bondage or suspension in a playful, approachable way. A swing doesn’t need to feel intimidating: think of it as furniture that just happens to elevate both your body and your pleasure.
Turning Words Into Foreplay: How Writing Can Rewrite Desire
Every long-term relationship hits a point where sex can feel… predictable. It doesn’t mean the love is gone or the chemistry is broken, it just means the usual rhythms no longer shock your nervous system. The good news? You don’t have to reinvent yourself to bring back the heat. You just need to pick up a pen or your phone.
The Case for Sexual Abundance
Scroll through dating TikTok or Reddit threads about sex and you’ll see the same mood: doom. This pessimism has a name: sexual fatalism, the sense that casual encounters are destined to disappoint, that risks outweigh rewards, and that satisfaction belongs only to the lucky few. But what if this story is incomplete? Maybe the real crisis isn’t a lack of adventurous partners but the lens we use to approach sex. That’s where sexual abundance comes in.
Nathan Lents on the Evolutionary Lessons of Sex and Gender Diversity
Nathan Lents, a professor of biology at John Jay College of Criminal Justice, has devoted nearly 15 years to teaching a course on the biology of sex and gender. Those classroom discussions accumulated into his new book, The Sexual Evolution: How 500 Million Years of Sex, Gender, and Mating Shape Modern Relationships. In it, he argues that diversity is not an exception in the animal kingdom but a rule, and that accepting this truth reshapes both biology and culture.
Queer Culture in the Spotlight: From Underground Nights to Everyday Mainstream
There was a time when queer sex culture lived almost entirely in the shadows. Nightclubs with no signs, bathhouses whispered about through word of mouth, hookups arranged in coded personal ads or through chance encounters in dimly lit corners of the city. Fast forward to today and it is impossible to miss how much of that same energy has entered the mainstream.
Could Hookup Culture Actually Be a Path to Happiness?
As American conservatism grows louder in its calls for “traditional marriage” and sex only for procreation, hookup culture has become a favorite target. The Far Right frames casual sex as a threat to stability, intimacy, and mental health. But what if that isn’t the full story? What if hookup culture is stronger and safer than ever and helps people build happier, healthier lives?
‘Sister Hong’ Scandal: When Male Victims Are Invisible
A cross-dressing man in Nanjing, China—dubbed “Sister Hong”—posed as a woman to lure over 1,000 men into intimate encounters, secretly filming them and distributing the footage illegally. This sparked widespread public health concerns when some of the filmed men reportedly tested positive for HIV.
🏳️🌈 A Caribbean Victory: Saint Lucia Decriminalizes Same‑Sex Intimacy
In a landmark ruling on July 29, 2025, the Eastern Caribbean Supreme Court declared Saint Lucia’s colonial-era laws outlawing consensual gay sex — namely “buggery” and “gross indecency” — unconstitutional.
The Sexy Transformation of the Period Drama
A few decades ago, period dramas were about corsets, gentle flirtation, and unspoken glances. But today, they’re practically risqué.
From Dudley to Daring: Harry Melling’s Cannes Shock Play
Once forever typecast as Dudley Dursley in Harry Potter, Harry Melling has made a dramatic, unrecognizable turn—literally and figuratively—at the 2025 Cannes Film Festival.
What Virgin Island Is All About
In Virgin Island, 12 sexually inexperienced young adults are isolated on a rural, convent-like estate with two “groundbreaking sex therapists,” Danielle and Celeste, guiding their sexual transformation. Using something called the “Somatica Method,” the therapists dismantle shame through escalating intimacy—with Danielle even offering to “help” clients lose their virginity.
The Threesome: A Messy, Modern Rom-Com About Sexual Discovery
Directed by Chad Hartigan and written by Simpsons alum Ethan Ogilby, The Threesome follows the awkward, chaotic, and hilariously emotional fallout of a spontaneous romantic entanglement. Premiering at South by Southwest and arriving in theaters September 5, 2025, it stars Zoey Deutch, Jonah Hauer‑King, Ruby Cruz, with comedic turns from Jaboukie Young‑White and more.
Not Just a Trend: Why Rising Bisexual Identities Reflect Real Change
In May 2025, Psychology Today ran an article debunking the idea that bisexual identification among young people is merely a fashion statement. Backed by Clearer Thinking’s survey data, the piece argues this shift reflects real shifts in attractions and behaviors—not just a social bandwagon.