Real Talk from a Porn Star: You Can Rock the Bedroom, Even if You’re Not “Hung”

Madelynn May rates up to 100 dicks a day

There’s a reason guys still hit up porn stars in droves, not just for fantasy, but for answers. “They shouldn’t feel ashamed about something they can’t control,” says Madelynn May and she should know. She gets “over 100 messages a day” from men worried they “don’t measure up.”

She recently got real on what a lot of men don’t admit out loud: size anxiety. And she’s dropping truth bombs: it’s not about how long or thick you are, it’s about confidence, technique, and owning what you’ve got.

Stop Chasing Inches, Start Learning Game. Her point is clear: porn’s standards are a fantasy. Actors are chosen for freakish bodies. That’s a business, not a baseline. She’s worked with guys across the size spectrum — “from four inches to fourteen” — and says almost every one can “feel good” in bed if they bring presence, effort, and respect.

Her message? “Don’t shame yourself for what you can’t control. Focus on what you can: how you move, how you care, how you connect.”

Why This Hits Hard

Let’s face it: we live in a world where porn inflates expectations. But outside the screen, most real sex isn’t about exaggerated hardware, it’s about rhythm, emotional vibe, chemistry, and honesty. Studies show many men who think their penis is “too small” are actually within normal size ranges, and many partners care more about intimacy than girth.

Plus confidence matters. A man who owns what he’s got, moves with intention, respects boundaries, and listens to rhythm? That man is almost always more satisfying than the “big dick hype.”

If You Want to Feel Bigger Here’s What Really Works

• Master technique over size. Learn angles, positions, rhythm. Often skill trumps inches.

• Confidence, presence, and real connection. Be attentive. Communicate. Engage. Be in the moment. That’s attractive as hell.

• Forget comparison porn-style. Reality is textured, messy, alive. Real intimacy isn’t built on perfection. It’s built on authenticity.

• Own what you’ve got, no shame. Size is a stat. Pleasure, satisfaction, desire come from attitude, energy, respect.

Porn’s never been reality. It’s stylized, exaggerated, built for flash, not fulfillment. The true winners in bed aren’t those with “magnum” packages. They’re the ones who show up with confidence, technique, respect, and presence.

So if you’ve ever felt “too small,” maybe you were measuring the wrong thing.